Comments on: Bridging the gap

By: CheekySweetie

CheekySweetie — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 03:20:23 +0000

Thank you Ariel. Things have settled into a precarious, but comfortable friendship. There are moments when my heart breaks for the loss of the dream of our family whole…but I like him so much more now that he is not something else for me to manage. I can appreciate him as a person more now. Except when he acts like a jackass, of course. *snort*

By: Ariel

Ariel — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 21:57:48 +0000

I wrote all up and down the internet when I left my ex. It was all the support I had and since he didn't bother to know me then or read my blog I felt free to let her rip.
All I know is life is too short to be anything less than happy (or at least working towards happiness, since life is full of up and downs- one can't always be perfectly happy:)).
You owe it to your children to show them what healthy relationships are- whether it's with someone or alone because it wasn't healthy.
And you shouldn't stay with someone you can't trust. Period.

By: CheekySweetie

CheekySweetie — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 07:14:13 +0000

Thank you, Adam. I know in time it will be fine, but getting to there is the hard part.

By: Avitable

Avitable — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 18:43:56 +0000

You're very thoughtful to take his feelings into consideration and that type of civility is always a good sign.