Cheeky Sweetie

I just found out that Lisa at Clusterfook.com has moved on to greener pastures this evening.  I so regret that I wasn’t able to meet her-I haven’t found a person who did that didn’t just fall head over heels in love with her.  She was a wife and a mother, a wonderful friend, and she was an eloquent writer.  She seemed to always see the best in people-a trait that made her shine so brightly.

Though I don’t know her as well as some, I think it is obvious to anyone who reads her blog that raising awareness about ovarian cancer was a big deal to her.  Because of that, I’d like to remind you all to see your gynecologists regularly.  It’s advice I am taking myself; I have my first pap in five years scheduled for Tuesday.  It’s easy to let your health slip to the back burner when you are busy with your family, but your family needs you to take care of yourself more than *anything* so you will be there as long as possible.

In closing, this is what the Mayo Clinic has to say about ovarian cancer:

Symptoms of ovarian cancer are nonspecific and mimic those of many other more common conditions, including digestive and bladder disorders. A woman with ovarian cancer may be diagnosed with another condition before finally learning she has cancer. Common misdiagnoses include irritable bowel syndrome, stress and depression.

The key seems to be persistent or worsening signs and symptoms. With most digestive disorders, symptoms tend to come and go, or they occur in certain situations or after eating certain foods. With ovarian cancer, there’s typically little fluctuation — symptoms are constant and gradually worsen.

Recent studies have shown that women with ovarian cancer are more likely than are other women to consistently experience the following symptoms:

• Abdominal pressure, fullness, swelling or bloating
• Urinary urgency
• Pelvic discomfort or pain

Additional signs and symptoms that women with ovarian cancer may experience include:

• Persistent indigestion, gas or nausea
• Unexplained changes in bowel habits, such as constipation
• Changes in bladder habits, including a frequent need to urinate
• Loss of appetite or quickly feeling full
• Increased abdominal girth or clothes fitting tighter around your waist
• Pain during intercourse (dyspareunia)
• A persistent lack of energy
• Low back pain
• Changes in menstruation

When to see a doctor
See your doctor if you have swelling, bloating, pressure or pain in your abdomen or pelvis that lasts for more than a few weeks. If you’ve already seen a doctor and received a diagnosis other than ovarian cancer, but you’re not getting relief from the treatment, schedule a follow-up visit with your doctor or get a second opinion. Make sure that a pelvic exam is a part of your evaluation.

If you have a history of ovarian cancer or a strong history of breast cancer in your family, strongly consider seeing a doctor trained to detect and care for ovarian cancer patients so that you can talk about screening, genetic testing and treatment options while you are disease-free.

Lisa, you will be missed.